But in the original game there are only male characters and the messages are related to the played character not player gender as far as I know.
What is more, your suggestion will not help in distinction as everybody would be free to choose whatever gender he/she likes so I guess that mostly some weird dudes will choose female gender.
There isn't any active relation being made; the game was just originally made with the default text being of the male tense.
Men that pretend to be women have existed long before the internet and will likely continue to do so. Nothing I can do about that.
I think we're all aware that the models in game are men, I'm not disputing that; but there are women that play this game. I just wanted to see if it were possible for the game logs to reflect this. It's a very minor feature request and if it cannot be incorporated in the next version of Silent, this thread could be used to share with others how to make this possible on their server via a workaround/scripting.
Oxyzium: Thanks for the suggestion: I'll dive into the code a bit and see what I find.